Bereavement – No Right or Wrong Way to Grieve (Part 1)
My story as an adult bereaved as a child — and why grief doesn't follow a timeline.
Read article →Couples counselling specialist · Bolton, Westhoughton & online
Helping couples move away from resentment, communicate with care and rediscover each other — alongside individual therapy for adults experiencing anxiety, grief, burnout and life transitions.
A brief introductory call to discuss your needs, answer any questions, explore whether we are a good fit to work together, and learn about my therapy approach and what works best for you.
Couples counselling is at the heart of my work. Whether you're caught in the same arguments, feeling distant, or carrying resentment that has built up over time, sessions offer a calm, neutral space where you both feel heard.
Face-to-face in Bolton & Westhoughton, or online together from home.
Faith-sensitive couples counselling is available for Christian couples who'd like their beliefs included.
“She would often share stories or metaphors to help me see my situation from a new side.”Hedwig P., Google review
MBACP RegisteredNCPS Accredited
Psychotherapist and EAP Associate Counsellor
I provide a safe and compassionate space where you can explore anxiety, grief, burnout, relationship challenges and life's difficult transitions surrounding work, health and major life occurrences.
Working with couples is my speciality — helping partners understand each other, soften old patterns and find their way back to one another.
If you recognise yourself here, you're in the right place.
Couples counselling is my speciality, and I also support individuals with the areas below — tap any one to read more.
Move away from resentment, communicate with care and rediscover each other. Face-to-face in Bolton & Westhoughton, or online together.
Manage worry, panic, overthinking, rumination and constant tension.
Read more →Support to lift low mood, loss of motivation and feelings of hopelessness.
Read more →Gentle support through your grief — there's no right or wrong way to grieve.
Read more →Manage the demands of caring, reduce stress and find some balance.
Read more →Support for compassion fatigue, burnout, workplace bullying and career stress.
Read more →Resolve conflict, improve communication and strengthen family and partner bonds.
Read more →A safe space to talk about stress, isolation or emotional pain, without judgement.
Read more →Support through life transitions, family, career and emotional wellbeing.
Read more →Explore patterns, build confidence and rebuild self-esteem.
Read more → SpecialistEmotional support for people living with disability or long-term health conditions.
Read more → Christian-informedFaith, spirituality and personal values are welcome in the therapy room.
Read more →“My approach is informed by both professional training and a deep appreciation of the challenges people face in everyday life.”
Whether you're managing responsibilities, coping with health difficulties, supporting others, facing uncertainty, or going through a significant life transition, I offer a compassionate space to help you make sense of your experiences and move forward.
Read my story“Helping people leave therapy better equipped, more self-aware, and more confident in navigating life's challenges.”
1 Silverwell Lane, Bolton BL1 1QN — a private, confidential therapy room in the town centre.
Counselling in Bolton →Face-to-face sessions in Westhoughton are now available too.
Find out more →Secure video sessions from the comfort of your own home, wherever you are in the UK — including Sheffield.
Online counselling →Episodes exploring mental health, relationships, grief, faith and personal growth.
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My story as an adult bereaved as a child — and why grief doesn't follow a timeline.
Read article →Self-care is 'showing up for yourself' — respecting your boundaries, living your values and building a routine that truly fits your life.
Read article →Thinking about online counselling? The pros, the cons, and what you need to get started.
Read article →“I started working with Adenike in a very turbulent and emotional time of my life and it felt like a blessing to have a woman with such warmth, compassion and wisdom on my side. To me she was not “just a therapist”. She was a huge pillar of strength and encouragement on my path. She created a space that was open for what truly mattered to me. I distinctly remember a few times when I would message her spontaneously in a lot of distress and receive answers that would help me to immediately shift perspective to self-compassion. Those were very crucial learning moments for me because she showed me that I could meet myself with love instead of pressure. I still remember the things she said back then and continue to practice to talk to myself in that way. I learned so much about having a growth mindset from her. She shifted my “everything that’s wrong with me and my life”-mindset to the “let’s talk about where you have grown recently”-one. One of my big topics during our work together (and one that she’s very passionate about as well) was romantic relationships. She would often share stories or metaphors to help me see my situation from a new side. She encouraged me to make lists and spell out what I truly need and desire from a relationship which helped me to finally cut out a very draining situationship that I had held onto for five years and never thought I could let go of. I think the biggest factor for that besides the list, etc. was simply her presence in my life. I knew I would be okay because I had “backup”. We had a few times where our view differed a lot and even then – as I was doing and saying things she disagreed with – she was able to hold and communicate her own values and concerns very honestly while also honoring and respecting mine. That was a deeply healing experience for me because I understood that conflicts are possible with appreciation and respect for each other. I left every session with her feeling filled up even when we had talked about very tough things. I am so deeply grateful that I got to work with Adenike for two-and-a-half years and I whole-heartedly recommend her to anyone who is in need of a deeply soul-nourishing support!”
“I’ve been waiting for this moment to express my heartfelt gratitude! De Pungle Practice was more than just a therapist – she was a safe haven. She created a non-judgmental space where I felt truly heard and understood. Her empathetic approach is genuine, and her care for her clients is palpable. Her words of encouragement and motivation are always spot on, and she has a unique gift for making you feel seen and valued. De Pungle Practice brings a distinctive perspective to her work, and her ability to connect with her clients is remarkable. Although my sessions came to an end, but the impact she’s had on my life will remain forever. If you’re seeking a therapist who will support and uplift you, look no further than De Pungle Practice – she’s truly exceptional!”
“I have been working with Nikkey for the past 3 years and couldn’t recommend her enough. She has seen me through many changes in my life and has been an incredible support system. Her approach to therapeutic work is amazing, often encorporating messaging through story telling, which I found to be very helpful and effective. She has equipped me with skills for life, I know myself much better now and am so much more in control of my emotions. Greatful for her service.”
“Honest, reliable and safe counselling. I’ve been a long time client and could not recommend more”
“DePungle Practice has offered personalized and effective guidance. Great service overall. I highly recommend.”
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